It's not as easy as it seems. The principle: “Suck at it and hope for the best” does not work here. Nothing will come of it “by itself”. If you want to please her you need a bit of practice and knowledge of what to do and how to do it.
I will describe this on the example of running, as this activity has recently filled my time and absorbed my thoughts. Let’s take something that seems to be very easy, like going downhill. In reality is not simple at all, particularly over long distances. There is a whole lot of technical details and other factors affecting the process, such as whether the contact of the foot with the ground starts from the heel or the instep, the legs are straight or bent, the hips bent forward or backward. Is the whole body bent forward or straight…
And it all seemed so simple.
This article is just an introduction to the vast subject. A separate blog could be devoted to techniques of oral sex.
Today, I will just state that most men do not know how to give a woman pleasure orally. It is necessary to realise that oral sex is not only about the work of the tongue. It is also about gums, teeth, speed, force, fractioning, and a lot of other factors.
You should also be aware that your tongue may have different degrees of hardness and different surface sizes depending on its position.
I will soon turn describe various technical elements and also a number of methods to practice your tongue.
Of course, you can always be selfish and decide not to educate yourself in this matter. You can also take a different approach and claim that the female vagina is not made for being licked But then I would not expect your woman to give you this respect more than you give her…